Are you friends? Answer that question and you will know what to do about your future. If you do not even have enough of a bond to consider yourself friends, then you don't belong together and would be happier w/others. Friendships have ups and downs but they are worth every down.The feeling of'love'is very idealistic and can vary... don't base your decision on whether or not you think you love them right now.In my opinion, love is more about friendship, if anything.. it's about accepting a person for their good and bad sides.