I'm with you on this one. to give someone the complete story and background it would take forever on some of these questions. i think that most of these people are dwelling too much on their problems and want to try to find more sympathy than answers to the problem they have. they hear from others'hey i can relate'or'he is horrible, leave him!'. they want people to tell them what they already know, but are too scared to do anything about. i think the other half are actually younger teens that really don't know what is going on and don't know how to find the answers. at that age they won't ask their parents'advice and their friends are just as clueless as they are, mainly cause they are just learning about it themselves.