my suggestion would be to keep it simple for a bit that first few weeks can feel like love but most of the time it is all infatuation of the new i would hate to see anyone hurt in the matter if it is all that then it will happen naturally you won't need to ask this question it will come in time don't feel like you have to tell her that when it is time it will happen without you even thinking about it if it is realgood luck god bless