soo maybe I am oversimplifying--but you no longer lust for him, you simply love him.And that's a problem?Lust always fades.Now, if'no longer attracted to him"means you are repulsed by him, then yes it is a problem. But if you simply don't have that'gotta have you right here, right now'lust, then I think you are fine. Find some ways to spice things up a little and enjoy.