My Breakup story ?? Really confusing but I need advice. NOTHING rude please.?

OKay so, I have been going out with my boyfriend for a total of 8 months .. I have been dating him on line, I know your gonna say "WHY THE HECK WOULD YOU DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT!?" Well it was my first time ever doing something like this. We've been really close, getting even closer actually, but we still haven't met yet,He promised me though that we will once this summer, He knows what I look like, and I know what he looks like. everything started to get a little bit suspicious last month, than I decided to do some investigating .. I haven't talked to my friend Monica in SOO long, she's never on, i never see her around, and she comes on once in a while. So i started to time when she comes on She would come on, and than get off, and than Josh would come on, they would never come on at the same time, so I started to question that. Than I started putting the things he tells me, and tried to connect them with Monica, some things fit, but some things didn't, I needed answers. So ..
Last night, I was on face book, and I see Jamie was on, He is Monica's brother. So I started up a chat with him and asked him if i could ask him a few question's. he's a very truthful guy and he wouldn't lie to me. So i started asking him questions and comparing Josh's life with Monica's Life. Josh told me he was German, Monica is German, Josh told me his parents are divorced and he lives with his Dada and sometimes go to his mom's, the same deal goes on for Monica. Josh always tells me he has to leave early Monday and Thursdays cause he has soccer, Monica has soccer on those days too.
All of this adds up, there much more evidence and proof too.
And I once brought this up with Josh, and he kept denying it, telling me to trust him. He's really romantic, even to romantic for a guy I think. I've tried to get him to talk to me on the computer, through mics, but now he wont let me, even though i did hear him once in a conversation with some other people on skype. But I don't remember his voice, he could of discuised his voice to sound like a guy, who knows.
I really loved him, but theres so much proof that he's not real and it scares me half to death. If this is monica, she ruined my life. i don't really go out all that much anymore, I don't have much of a social life all because of this Josh guy.
And something that is really Odd, His full name is Josh Evans, the same name for the boy in the Megan Meier Case. This story shocked me, and I just dont know what to do about it. Im scared, I opened my heard to him, fell deeply in love and now itslike my heart is ripped in peices.
I won't know FOR SURE, until tomorrow if this is all true, but if it is, How long will it take for me to heal ? I'm really really hurt.
Im also moving at the end of the summer, to a new town .. so I will be starting fresh, but I still have a feeling it will take forever to move on .. Sorry for the long story, but anything will be greatly apprecited.

Shawnaa. <3

Is she is a friend, she's certainly not a good one! I think you may be right - all of those things seem to add up. Do you think her brother may have tipped her off Thai you may be suspicious?

Maybe what you could do is e-mail "Josh" and tell him that you've really gotta make a decision here. That you've had a guy hitting on you lately and he's right here, nearby and that you feel since he never wants to talk to you on the phone or meet you in person that this relationship isn't going anywhere and you need to break up. And then see what kind of response you get from him (her).

That is all too weird that she would carry this on for 8 months!! That isn't even funny. I wonder if she has a secret crush on you? As for the healing - I'm thinking since you've suspected what has been going on you've probably already begun to heal a little. If what Monica did is true, there should be laws to punish people like her! That is terrible.