BREAKUP ADVICE! Will she really hate me forever or is she just so mad right now and just wants me to leave her
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BREAKUP ADVICE! Will she really hate me forever or is she just so mad right now and just wants me to leave her
Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dint let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my assizing got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraining order. Am i a rebound? Lil She told me initially that she lost feelings and still wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumed that i lied to her about things and that i tried to fool her during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her. Is she nuts?
She also told me not to try to prove myself different then what she called me. She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didn't lie, just acted extra nice cause i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she realty stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADVICE
I have had this same problem before but not as dramatic. Talk about it with her, try and find a way to reignite that spark . Either that or leave her alone for a couple of weeks to a month and then talk to her
sounds like you were a rebound just a breath of fresh air from someone that hurt her. now she is damaged goods and may not realize that she needs counseling. you cant make her love you, she will one day realize that you were a good man but you must move on and get over her because she will continue to dislike you as long as you keep pushing her buttons
Dude let her go! It's not a big deal if she never talks to you again. There are plenty of other girls out there looking for a guy like you. Why waste your time on some one like this last chick? GET OVER HER AND MOVE ON! That's the best advice you'll ever get!
well i think u actually might have had another chance with her if u just stopped bugging her. now u really blew it. just stop bugging her now. she probably thinks Ur some stalker Lil sorry 2 say...good luck..and happy new years!
Wow, you really need to back off and leave her alone, completely for a good while. If you leave it alone, she might contact you at a much later date as a friend. But persisting is just going to push her away and make you seem like a stalker. Let it go and distract yourself. Join a gym or a support group. Find some new friends.Good Luck.
dude let her go!!! as a former victim of abuse, i will be the first one to tell you, it takes alto of time for some people to comes to their senses and back to their "right" mind after enduring years of abuse. however, (and I'm not judging anyone here, just voicing an opinion..) she doesn't sound like your "typical" victim of abuse, even verbal abuse. most victims dint usually think they are "out of someones league" or act so forthright, self-centered and self-righteous, but then again, you never know..
love problems at new year huh? Ha strange world.
well, as a woman's advice I'm younger than u guys (22 here) but, from my point of view if she really loves u she wouldn't be doing this, she would wanna stay friends, but usually when a woman does that to a man its not cause that man hurt her, or lied to her, or just cause she lost the "spark", most likely cause she met someone else.
I'm sorry whoever Ur, I'm sorry 2 say that as icon it'll hurt Ur feelings, but think of it this way, its her loss? yes we do get hurt when we love someone and they dint love us anymore, as they did in the past, she will get around someday and talk to you, but would u as a grown 29yrs old man wana talk to someone who treated u this way? and someone who spoke to u this way?? imean here iam suffering from my bf being different with me and im already thinking of leaving, if he did/does what ur ex did to u, iwouldnt even consider being friends.
no u didnt push her, dont let anything make u feel this way, this is the guilt part, where we blame our selves n convince our selves that WE are the mistaken ones, but we arent, YOU my friend arent mistaken, theres no such things as "leagues" its just a lame excuse, she met someone else, and im never wrong, or at least usually :\ so bottom of line is, yes she might get around back 2u if she breaksup with the new boy toy or if it doesnt work out, that is NOT the question, the REAL question here is, do U really wana be friends with someone who has no respect for u and didnt even end the relation nicely, but was rude enough to tell u that ur out of her league? thats the question my friend!
Dear Seeking love,
Everyone wants to find love,but the trick is in not chasing it. there's a saying "l have them chase you, until you catch them" its always best to not try so hard as you scare people because they wonder anyway why a person may not have someone and when you do that they figure that's the reason, as you come off as needy. A person wants what other people want, and no one wants a needle person. If you want this lady to ever consider talking to you again, the best advise I would give you is to find a person who wants you as much as you want them and then when you're happy and have a beautiful life, if she ever See's you again she will be happy to know that and will have something nice to say to you then because she'll know that she had a wrong opinion of you, because someone else found you to be a great person as you are!
Move on, take a bitter bite and leave her alone for awhile. You can try to write her a letter and tell her about your feelings at a later stage, probably at that time you wouldn't have border to write to her after a while as you might have already accepted the fact about what's gone is gone.
Be aware about your heart feelings, and be honest to yourself,
1, Do you really mean, just wanted to be friends, or
2. You are hoping that things can patch up, or
3. You simply can't let go of her and accept the fact that she wanted to leave you.
If you're asking for advice, let go of her and wish her the very best with sincerity, and this is true friendship love.
BREAKUP ADVICE! Will she really hate me forever or is she just so mad right now and just wants me to leave her
