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Old 10-25-2008, 01:02 PM
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I'm dating one of my really good friends and he's really into me but the feeling isn't mutual how do i let him know without hurting him??!!??

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Old 10-29-2008, 01:02 PM
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tell him directly

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Old 11-01-2008, 01:02 PM
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Honesty is less painful than lying to someone. Just be kind and honest.
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Old 11-06-2008, 12:02 PM
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be honest, tell him the truth, and be his friend
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Old 11-07-2008, 12:02 PM
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OK say .......I'm dumping you
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Old 11-12-2008, 12:02 PM
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be honest
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Old 11-14-2008, 12:02 PM
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Stop the dating game before he reads too much into it. The longer you date the more invested he will become. Break it off cleanly but kindly if possible.
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Old 11-19-2008, 12:02 PM
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a really good book to read about break-ups is "It's Called a Break-Up Cause It's Broken." How do I know? I read it, after a horrible break-up and I survived!
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Old 11-20-2008, 12:02 PM
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You just have to tell him.
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:02 PM
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Tell him like a "g"that's what i do.
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Old 11-27-2008, 12:02 PM
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Were you ever into him? By the way, if you guys are not too serious, he should take it pretty well. However, if you guys have at it for a while, be careful. He might fall harder than you anticipate.
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Old 11-28-2008, 12:02 PM
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why did u start in the first place?

u have no option left just tell him in person.
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Old 11-30-2008, 12:02 PM
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Since you two are such good friends I would be honest with him. If he respects your friendship he's going to want you to be happy. He's going to be hurt, there's no getting around that, but hopefully he'll get over it and continue to be your friend. Good luck!
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Old 12-03-2008, 12:02 PM
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Let him know that you enjoy and appreciate your relationship more as friends, and that you thought maybe it would work out as more than friends, but you were wrong. Tell him that you value his friendship and never ever want to lose him, and he is special in every way to you, as a friend. Hope this helps you out a bit.

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