BREAKUP ADVICE? help pleasssssssssssse.?

blurrybook · #1 (**permalink**) 02-10-2009, 12:11 PM

my boyfriend and i just broke up this morning and now he's already over a bunch of girls and he's talking crap about me and he's acting like he doesn't even care about me. what do i do?

St Michael · #2 (**permalink**) 02-11-2009, 12:11 PM

Ignore his behavior. Take the high road, and you won't look back. In the process, he'll end up looking like the jerk that he is.

Alex Savage · #3 (**permalink**) 02-15-2009, 12:11 PM

completely understand the situation i do not.
but hard a breakup is..

cry you should , feel terrible you will ,time shall heal this.
the only advise i can give this is.

bikernoj · #4 (**permalink**) 02-20-2009, 12:11 PM

He's just spinning his wheels.....don't get all excited about it.

The best way to forget about someone is time. Give yourself time to grieve a little.....be a hermit for a little bit, and then go back out and meet new people, but don't delude yourself that the next one is THE one...CZ they aren't.

Just make the attempt to date, and get use to the idea you're on your own again.

Do NOT monitor his actions, or you will just prolong things and scar yourself all up with emotional injuries.

No matter what he does or who he thinks he has, none of his won't work out either.

Someday, you and he will both meet other people that WILL be the one tho. If you broke up, then that's IS what's best. It means you are not compatible, and you need to know that now....not later!

Sorry that happened to you, but don't make it the end of the world...it so isn't the end of the world!

hug

little miss tiny =] · #5 (**permalink**) 02-25-2009, 12:11 PM

Ignore him. I promise this will shock him more. Act like he doesn't exist, and like you never meet him in your life.

SheWhoMustBeObeyed · #6 (**permalink**) 03-02-2009, 12:11 PM

The best thing you can do is ignore his behavior. Him acting like this is just a way for him to get a reaction out of you so don't react. As hard as it is. If the people he's talking crap about you to are stupid enough to believe his lies then they are certainly not worth your time worrying about it.
Judging by some of your past questions it sounds like this guy was quite the loser. People like that are not worth your time.
Hope you're doing OK!