BREAKUP ADVICE. What will she think of speaking as friends after the fallout clears.?

Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to stay friends badly!. I kept asking her i wanted her back sweetly. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my assizing got sickening and now she says she will never be friends and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just wanted to stay friends. Saw her recently and she said hello. We tried to talk but she said she has nothing to say? The happened to her? She said she will regret the breakup. Why
I saw her this past weekend and we tried to talk, but she said she had nothing to say to me. We hang out at similar places and she talks to my friends. I treated her so well. She always told me how lucky she was to be "stuck" with me and i am the best. Told me she wanted to marry me etc.. have kids and all. All of a sudden you lose feelings. Makes no sense. She did just get out of a 2 1/2 yr verbally abusive relationship which ended in a restraining order, which I come to find out she has started to text him again, nothing more and the testing started while we were together, of course she denied, but I have proof. I guess i was a rebound or what. Do you guys think she just realized she didn't want to be in a relationship cause she was not ready?? Or was she just confused, she is a Gemini and I am a Pisces? Any advice on how I should deal with this?

O, dude, please save yourself the continued emotional pain and let her go. I don't know "who" you're wanting to stay friends with, but the woman you've described in reality doesn't want to be friends, doesn't want to know you any longer. It's painful when someone breaks up with us for whatever reason (warranted or boneheaded), but the best action for you to take is "none" regarding attempting to "win" her back. I don't understand why you claim to care about her so much but feel it's perfectly okay to disregard her feelings because they're not what you want them to be. It's just plain obsessive and selfish. Meaning, she doesn't want to be with you, but you want her to be with you and that's what your actions follow--what YOU want.

Your ex probably tells you things you want to hear just to "get away" from you. And I don't mean she's terrified of you, just that it's easier to get on with her life when she encounters you by telling you a little white lie--because if your "question" is anything to go by, I imagine you get a little intense, to say the least. We all do it, as a way to avoid a situation that we don't want to deal with, or to save feelings. Granted, in the end, it's still a lie, but until you figure out she's reassuring you until you're okay with the break up, she's just going to keep blowing smoke up your wazoo.

Just do yourself a favor and let this ex go. If you're half the man you say you are, then there's going to be another lady who'll appreciate the attention and love you have to give.