you don't make me happy anymore really hurts. that's what my bf said to me when he broke up with me last year. but I'm back with him and we are so good now it's awesome. he's just afraid of commitment and we were pretty serious....
anyways, if you're trying to break up with someone don't say it's me not you, don't say call me if you ever need anything, don't say we can still be friends.
the best thing to say would be i think things just aren't working out and it would be best if we both moved on with our lives. end contact, don't talk to that person anymore. a clean break is the best thing that can happen