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Me and him Were Together For 5 months. Awesome 1st month. 2ND month started noticing Little things. His behavior was different. Arguments, Alcohol problem, Too much Medication. Started noticing all these Red Flags. When i was Thinking about breaking up with him, a day before he Tells me that he has Crohn's Disease. Knowing that, i was willing to stay for support. I stayed for a month. Everything started going down hill. Parents started kicking him out, alcohol started taking control of him. AA didn't help. Back and forth Hotel nights sucked! He has to many problems, Army and step mom Passed away last yr. Ive been true a lot with him these passed Months, But seems not to appreciate me. He Only talks to me when Drunk, Sober he can careless and won't call for weeks. I Feel used, called him told em why he hasn't called and all he said "i don't know what to say" i got so upset and hung up on him, after all we been through. So I gave him a few day's, thinking he "might apologize, Never did. So i decided to break it off last Nite trough a text. Am already used to him not calling me, so am not waiting for a call. I just need some Advice in all this??
We are both young, am 22 he's 25. No kid's. Am not working right now. Hes in the Army Reserves. he lives at home, same with me. He hasn't called or text me at all since last niter. We were together Since Halloween, till last niter when i officially broke it off Lol
I just deleted him from Myspace also. Was that too much, or i should of kept him? i still love him.
simple....move on......stop wasting your time this guy obviously needs help and if your trying to help him but he doesn't want to help himself then you just need to LEAVE
i think it wasn't a bad idea you deleted him to try and move forward. you can still love someone and not like them at the same time...... just dint over do it which means dint put too much effort into forgetting about him. everything will happen when it needs to. and i think your on the right track
Um, OK. Love is one thing. Staying with an addict? Wrong choice.
Girl, you got used. Being in a relationship with an addict would never last and you could easily get hurt. I understand that you've been through rough times with him but I mean, you would've just stayed friends, too. It's a good thing you broke up with him over text, if you were to say it to his face; God knows what would've happened. I say, wait until he calls,texts or gets back to you. But keep 911 or the police on speed dial. If he shows up , again, only God knows what bad consequences you might deal with.
Good luck.
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