breakup question tips or advice?

Pink Angel · #1 (**permalink**) 10-20-2009, 02:14 PM

Yeah, I recently went through a weird breakup.Things were really awesome at first but things took a severe turn from out of the blue? It was like she thought all I wanted to do was play mind games with her but that was so far from the truth it's not even funny. I worshiped the ground she walked on and I don't think she understood that... She was everything to me, I tried to help her but I swear I didn't do enough. I just cant seem to get a grip on why I couldn't hear her. At least that's what she said. Everytime I tried to help she didn't want it, every time I walked away shed ask where am I going?

tallbrian1000 · #2 (**permalink**) 10-22-2009, 02:14 PM

i grew a beard reading this..

club d · #3 (**permalink**) 10-26-2009, 02:14 PM

I think there must have been a lack of communication, or at least on a good level.

In a relationship, it should not be about how much one can do for the other. More about feelings and how well you connect.

You may want to move on to another relationship since this one is most likely completely over.

jacqueline cheung · #4 (**permalink**) 10-29-2009, 02:14 PM

The b i t c h is crazy! Dump her! Dont try to reason with some girls. It will drive you insane. To h e l l with her and find a nice girl.!

LeLe . · #5 (**permalink**) 11-02-2009, 01:14 PM

It sounds like a big communication problem.

sassy · #6 (**permalink**) 11-07-2009, 01:14 PM

you are not listening. sit down and ask her. when she tells you ask her if you perception is correct. this way you are on the same page as she is. never take for granted that what she said is correct. check it. women are complicated. especially if they are pregnant or on their cycle

Katrina · #7 (**permalink**) 11-08-2009, 01:14 PM

Females have 2 hands and 2 feet. Just like you. They can do it themselves. You can be around and let her enjoy your company or do it together. When making the best of a relationship, its best to leave your emotions out of it. Talk logical, and ask her, not the world.

Pete J · #8 (**permalink**) 11-10-2009, 01:14 PM

u love her she doesn't love you dump her easy as that

gcash81 · #9 (**permalink**) 11-14-2009, 01:14 PM

either you did or did not do some thing or you may have said something that came across the wrong way to her you need to have a serious talk with her to find out and if she does not want to hear what you have to say or does not seem interested in talking about what ever it is that went wrong then she must just want out cause if you took the time to go to her to talk about it it shows that you really did not realize what it is you did and she if she does not allow you to talk about it with her like if she just sits there and gives you that look the one where her expression says yeah get on with it already or doesn't seem real interested in what you have to say then she is not worth it cause that would suggest she does not feel the same way towards you

LostInLove · #10 (**permalink**) 11-15-2009, 01:14 PM

OK,just sit down and arks her,what does she need,and ho can u help,feel with her,show her that u really care about her,that there is some1 who feels and lives that situation with he(understand her)and dint get things fast