Breakup Advice.?

Bronson · #1 (**permalink**) 03-14-2010, 02:30 PM

I stopped talking to someone very important to me about a month ago. We were in love but didn't discuss commitment because of the distance--but I was faithful while she snubbed me for her ex and another, third guy, always pleading ignorance of her emotions and wants, at a time when my life was really hard and I needed her. I'm still consumed with anger, frustration, bitterness, jealousy, rejection, betrayal. I want to hurt her so much. It's not right that she got out of it unscathed. I'm going to talk to her bipolar, suicidal ex about what we did together, in graphic detail. He hated me for attracting her so it ought to make him give her hell for another couple of weeks. Then what? How do I stop wanting the bitch, and forget her, and rebuild?

jtrigoboff · #2 (**permalink**) 03-15-2010, 02:30 PM

The first step is to forgive her...Cus if you cant do that then you heart cant move on. You may have loved her but I doubt if she really loved you. Pray about it, let it go and move on!!!

kdragon_24 · #3 (**permalink**) 03-17-2010, 02:30 PM

Honestly you do need to get over it and violence isn't the answer you'll just wind up in an even worse situation than you already are so my advice don't make it worse and find someone else out there that's better for you and by my view you could have someone alto better and that will treat you alto better

Skin911 · #4 (**permalink**) 03-18-2010, 02:30 PM

dude look find a girl near you u like take her to a movie dint try to make a movie let her and talk after wards and listen and respond let me know how u feel when Ur done with that date

hottotrot1_usa · #5 (**permalink**) 03-19-2010, 02:30 PM

you said it yourself, you weren't committed,,, don't get mad, get even!! not by hurting her... but by living the time of your life and showing her that you are much happier without her. but please make sure you do it for real, for yourself. if she comes running to your arms then well and good,,, if she doesn't, not your loss. you already are happy,,

Leafz Lyrik · #6 (**permalink**) 03-23-2010, 02:30 PM

Look there is no advice to get over someone that's your personal choice. If you can't get over her that because you still love her. Really you just to need to stop thinking about her. As much as you think that you hate her you lover her. Sorry dude but the best thing is to leave her and her ex alone.