Going through a breakup need advice?

try doing a hobby that requires most of your day time [other than school] and in night hours try going out with friends or calling someone [other than him] It will keep your mind off him ALL DAY

Hang out with a friend or friends who will not allow you to cave and who will remind you of why you broke up with him.

It'll be better in the long run!! The right man is out there,and you'll know its him because he will treat you like no other!! He'll love you 4 you!! In the mean time threes the Lifetime Network!!

Stop thin kin abet him and u will enjoy just smell the freedom Hun!! now its time to PARTY!! u can a lots of stuff some thin that u weren't able to do box of lack of time and things that really interests u.
Best of luck.

This is defiantly one of the hardest things that you will have to deal with, Just did it myself. Where I messed up was every time I drank I called him. Bad move. So 1st, if you drink, erase his #...trust me. U can write it down at home so u have it but DO NOT have it in your phone. Another thing I started doing was going out with the girls, working more, working out so that I could look hot for the other guys...blah blah blah... and if he is a loser like you say, just raise your standards. Realize that you are better than that, and you can do better than that. Live for you, be happy. It is possible. I am now proof of that.

hang out with friends.
do things you were never able to do because you were with him.

Good God don't you hate it! I myself just went through it at the first of the year and I'm still not over the loser. As a matter of fact, I called him crying (as pathetic as that is) just the other day. But, he was very nice and sincere. Kinda weird, but it made me feel better. That was the first time I had spoken with him in awhile. It's really hard not to want to call and all that - I just stay busy doing things like shopping (I'm broke totally since this happened - ha), I get into photography, so I play around with that, sell stuff on Ebay, get lost on Myspace - just don't look at his page if he has one! This is very hard to do. Lets see, as for friends, I don't have many since I don't trust many people (past experiences) so, I just have to find ways to entertain myself - I'm always decorating and redecorating my home...you just have to get crafty with things to do and then BAM, you will meet somebody - I did! Last week. Have a date tonight. Wish me luck! And good luck to you too! Don't worry, you will get over him sooner or later and then - you will go through this probably at least 5 more times in your lifetime. I'm on my 5Th!

If he is a looser, then be glad you are rid of him. Now it is time to make some positive changes in your life.
Maybe time for a new hair do, clean out the closet and drawers of stuff you don't need.
get out and do some exercise, walking, running, biking maybe the gym.
Get involved in a club of some sort or start one up..
I don't know your hobbies, but get busy and get involved.
See if you can help out at the local shelter house, or soup kitchen.
Give of yourself and you will reap huge rewards...of confidence and well being....
If you don't think enough of yourself or have confidence that you can turn your life around, no one else will believe it.
Get off any drugs, alcohol or cigarettes and take hold of your life.. get healthy and get out there into the public and be noticed.
Get a job, help out a elderly neighbor or someone who needs to get out... you can watch the kids.
Time to hone on your studies and realize what you are doing now will effect the type of job you have in the future.
If you ever had a dream of doing something in your life, now is the time to take the first step towards it
If you do not get support from your friends it is time to change them...
This is your chance to make a difference in your life and get creative...
Don't sit there and stew about what to do, or him, or any other person.... think about what you can do for you.......that will help you get to where you want in life and go in that direction........
maybe talk to a parent if you can and share your dreams.... all parents are not bad... they want to protect you and see that you succeed.. reach out, I think you will be surprised.
Things happen in our life for a reason...
this 5 years you spent with him, was a lesson for you that you had to learn... so take your knowledge and move onward and upward to something better for you in your life.....