Easy 2pts for anyone who has been through a crapy breakup! Cud really use the advice! THX?

#1 bossman · #1 (**permalink**) 10-17-2008, 03:18 PM

Why after you break up with someone is it so easy to forget all the crap they put you through. Me and my boyfriend broke up 3 days ago and I was just SO FED UP with how he was treating me and I was taking it OK and all of a sudden I woke up this morning and I'm not mad anymore and it's like there is a block in my brain and I an forgetting how bad he was to me and i miss him. AM I MESSED UP IN THE HEAD? How could I miss that? How could i forget so quickly the sh*Ty things he did to me?? Is it normal and how can i resist the urge to call him when deep down i don't want to?
We were together for 3 years...

toollady · #2 (**permalink**) 10-18-2008, 03:18 PM

Its because you get so used to having something and when it's gone you feel different, like you're missing a part of you.
All you want to do it get it back and feel normal again.
Mhm, yep.
Sucks, I know. But you'll live.

Whoa! · #3 (**permalink**) 10-22-2008, 03:18 PM

Been there 2! It's so hard to forget them and you want to call and see them and get those warm fuzzy feelings again and you will but it's only for moments and he will be back to the same old ways.
Don't talk to him go out with friends family just way from him
It takes a long time but you will be happy again.
every time you talk to him or see him you have to start all over again.
The tears the heartache.etc.

discosaur · #4 (**permalink**) 10-23-2008, 03:18 PM

oh my god, we should talk, Lil.

Cami · #5 (**permalink**) 10-27-2008, 03:18 PM

Hey, Lil tip if you had broken up with him first ID feel lot Betta. Bi the WA the block in your head Wu your WA to cope with your emotions. It is actual norm. becuz yur hormones in u want a boyfrend becuz thats how u got in im in the first place and u urge a male in yur life becuz u want wun. DONT CALL IM! if u do he will treat u the same wai its not lyk hes changd in a cupl days. Find sumwun else to be with u and get a new gii. Remember if a gii is treating u bad then he dusnt deserve u.
well i gtg hope u take thiz advice!

Sincerely yours.
Answerer