a breakup and i need some advice...plz answer and thanks?
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a breakup and i need some advice...plz answer and thanks?
OK so me and my bf broke up about 2 weeks ago today.. he broke up with me and so his reasons were i felt like it and u were too clingy? ID what to think of those.. i was clingy CZ i loved him a lot and i dint think he loved me.. but i do think he likes me a lot still because he wants to make out with me in like a week or so but he dint want to get back together. I'm still in love with him and ID Wat to do and another problem is that he likes another girl who goes to another school.. which stinks because i get jealous.. i miss him because we never talk about any thin now he dint even look at me.. :'( so yeah i would like some advice.. BTW we dated for a year and we are both 15
Yeah Katie's right, He's just using you because he knows he can get what he wants from you. He knows how much you care about him so he's using his powers to control you. Like emotional blackmail kind of. I've been in the same situation and i know how much you must be hurting right now but believe me he obviously doesn't deserve you to have given those lame ex uses to break off a year relationship. By sounds of it your both growing up and also growing apart. It's not your fault and don't let him make you think that either. It's just nature running it's course. I know your probably sick of people telling you this but the best thing to do is be in control by calling the shots and telling him you Ont be used. Be strong and make him feel like you don't need him anymore because that will hurt him more then you think and lastly it will take some time but try and forget about him. Go out with friends and do things to take your mind off if him.
I wish I had someone like you when I was 15. Too stupid to know that you are being used as a cum bucket.
I mean, get real. He breaks up with you and cant get any from anyone else so he comes back to you for a quickie because its better then giving himself a stranger.
Girlfriend, love is a choice. You can choose not to love him anymore. Don't give me this bull-crap about "...I'm still in love with him and ID Wat to do..." You know what you need to do. All you are doing is giving yourself an excuse, justifying him using you, so that you will feel better after he jumps out of bed and take off without even looking back.
Girls like you eventually end up as someone punching bag because they have so often used your "...I'm still in love with him and ID Wat to do..." that it has became so automatic that they don't even think about what else they can do.
Love is a choice, choose what you want to do with it. Give it to someone who dint deserve it or give it to someone who is willing to worship the ground you walk on?
"...I'm still in love with him and ID Wat to do ..." Jesus. Really, where were you when I was 15? I bet I could have talk you into begging your hot girlfriend into having a threesome with us. And make you believe that it was your idea to boot!
a breakup and i need some advice...plz answer and thanks?
