Does anybody have breakup advice?

KatieHoff837 · #1 (**permalink**) 10-19-2008, 03:46 PM

I broke up with my first boyfriend. what should i do. he was so awesome, now i can't get over him.
Well he broke up with me. Cuz this other girl was desperate.

Jen O · #2 (**permalink**) 10-24-2008, 03:46 PM

if possible try to get back if not just forget about him

Liz C · #3 (**permalink**) 10-26-2008, 03:46 PM

dint crawl back to him first of all and just let it go its one guy

pearlishell26 · #4 (**permalink**) 10-27-2008, 03:46 PM

Let it go.
Why you broke up with him if he is so awesome?
Ask that question.
Because you may just be lonely.
It takes time to adjust and adapt to be single or without him.

mr.beavershroom · #5 (**permalink**) 10-31-2008, 03:46 PM

OK so lemme get this straight... hes awesome, but you Bourke up with him... now you cant get over him.... are you legit that stupid?!?

koto_rose14 · #6 (**permalink**) 11-04-2008, 02:46 PM

well why did you break up? that's the big question, if you still really like him a lot and he still feels the same way, just talk about it with him, if you made a mistake tell him how you feel

Success Coach · #7 (**permalink**) 11-07-2008, 02:46 PM

It happens but it was a reason why you two broke up it takes a little time but you will get over it just don't go back look forward.

Coco · #8 (**permalink**) 11-10-2008, 02:46 PM

yeah same happened to me bout two months ago. id say if yo oh still have feelings for him maybe yo oh should ask him could yo oh still be friends and at least stay friends with him if it isn't too awkward. if now then try to get over him. hang out with friends, go out, have fun! hope this helps(:

sweeteeyore81 · #9 (**permalink**) 11-13-2008, 02:46 PM

Break ups are really hard to get over but the human spirit has a way of getting over hurt and that is time there is nothing you can do but let time take its course, as time goes by you will forget him and move on with your life remember there was a reason why you broke up with him

ydlkpichardo · #10 (**permalink**) 11-17-2008, 02:46 PM

Stop focusing on all the good, and remember all the bad. Remember WHY you broke up with him. Just like everyone else, when were lonely we tend to focus on the past. And when we look at our past relationships we just focus on all the positive. When in reality, the NEGATIVE far outweighed the positive, which is why we left in the first place. So Just stop focusing on the good times and remember why you left. Then just stop focusing on the past, and make some goals and look towards the future. Then start dating and be as open as possible.

JustASmalltownGirl · #11 (**permalink**) 11-18-2008, 02:46 PM

The first cut is always the deepest. That is a huge cliche, but it's true and confirms that wounds do heal. There's nothing to stop you seeing him and being friends (I think), I know it's not the same but you don't have to be without him in your life.

*"_nhoc_ac_"* · #12 (**permalink**) 11-22-2008, 02:46 PM

You will get over him.

Just spend some time with your friends so you can get him out of your mind.

bananalovesobbs · #13 (**permalink**) 11-25-2008, 02:46 PM

well first i think u need to ask itself y did u break up?
if he broke up with u then u need to think or reasons y he Wu break up and then u need to hear the truth from him not from a friend or anything u need to hear it come out of his mouth
and if u broke up with him maybe u just need closer with him
whatever the case i think u just need to talk to him
so good luck and i hope i helped

Ashlyn · #14 (**permalink**) 11-27-2008, 02:46 PM

u said he was awesome...what happened??...you are freshly separated is the hardest part,get involved with your friends and go out change ideas!...it helps to be around people,things will be easier and u intervene think of him in time,if it was meant to be,u can still turn around and patch things up with him,if he is willing to listen also...good luck in your verdure!...