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I'm sixteen, and broke up with my high school sweetheart.
Honestly it's the worse break up I've ever had out of my whole life.
I had million's of Flin's, a few boyfriend's and girlfriend's before him.
But he actually showed me what love was and made me feel spec ail.
I know one day I'll most likely get over this and blah. Tell me something i don't know.
I'm really depressed though, and I'm not sure how to handle this.
I have picture's of us together but i don't want to delete them, it's to painful.
I have his last name as mine on face book, from when we pretended to be married; to painful to change that.
I also have a note about him.
Eh; i had my friend change my relationship status, and this little part about him in that white box.
& i had her change my other stuff..
But i feel like everything is awkward now; i told him i wont take those picture's down, he didn't take one of us down on his thing either..
So at least i don't feel stupid.
I just don't know how to deal with being friend's now.
We were best friend's for five month's before we started dating.
Now it's back where we started, but only difference is he's not begging for me.
We talked yesterday like nothing hap pend but he stopped talking out of no where.
Should i text him again today, or just give it some time?
I'm showing it doesn't bother me though, I'm being completely sane.
Should i maybe wait a few day's before talking to him?
& any advice on how to let go? I keep stalking his page like we're dating again.
I really shouldn't since he isn't 'really inlove' anymore. ;/
I sincerly doubt i'll be pregnat in 12 month's just because i'm depressed?
I'm not a whore, yes i gave him my virginty, but that doesn't mean i'll get pregnat. Immature much?
You are 16 and your post reflects the fact your not ready for a serious relationship. Focus on your school work or you'll be pregnant in 12 months or less and trying to figure out what you did to your life!
Maybe talk to him about it, its a tough question!
You should confront him about how you feel and tell him exactly what you think of him. Seeing as you are still in love.. Its important to know that your partner loves you. I dint know what hes like but if he is a normal guy he wont have forgotten anything. Boys think about things WAY more than girls (even if it doesn't seem like it) Just take the chance.. I think he needs to know...
First off, being friends after a break up rarely works, if at all. I think the worst part about a break up is you also lose your friend. As for deleting pictures, only you can decide when the time is right to do that. Just stash them in a file for now and when you feel ready, you can. Don't feel pressured to do it right away. I know it is so hard, but be unavailable to him. Being around him or talking to him will only rekindle the pain in your heart. I would also try to find things to keep yourself busy. Other friends, poetry, art, family, outdoor activities, movies, pets, finding other hobbies you might like? I know it is a clique but time is the best thing to help mend your heart. Best wishes to you and don't be afraid to reach out to other people who have been through this too.
Bad breakup, advice please?
