What advice to give to guyfriend after breakup?

Tania M · #1 (**permalink**) 01-09-2010, 02:51 PM

My best friend / ex bf has just broken up with his new girlfriend at university, 300 miles from here.

Apprently she's treating him like crap, not taking notice of him, she apparently knows she needs him, but she cant help going for the d*Cs, people that will screw her over. She wants to live life the exciting way and go out with new guys every night, kinda thing.

My best friend just came back from a party early, and came on Man. He said she was ignoring him, occasionally saying stuff and going back to her mates. They ha vent touched or kissed for a week, talked for two weeks. He's really upset and knows its the end, but he's feeling really bad.

I've said she's clearly not worth it, and knows she'll end up feeling sorry for herself and realizing what she missed, he knows that already.

I'll be talking to him again in a bit, what else can I say to him, to make him feel better?

nickthegeek15 · #2 (**permalink**) 01-12-2010, 02:51 PM

tell him to think of the bad side he have been through and start a fresh new time looking forward to learn from his past experience and to be careful in future when choosing a new girlfriend.

snowflakes · #3 (**permalink**) 01-16-2010, 02:51 PM

tell him that he's so much better than her, that he was settling the whole time. look forward, open your eyes a little wider...there's too much beauty to quit

mely · #4 (**permalink**) 01-17-2010, 02:51 PM

let him that he doesn't deserve a girl like her and that threes other people out there that are gonna be better for him

Kurt K · #5 (**permalink**) 01-21-2010, 02:51 PM

Tell him to go out on Friday night, and drag some little scrubber down an alley outside a nightclub and give her a right good stuffing. I guarantee that within 10 seconds of throwing his mess he won't give a shiny shite about his ex.

Frida · #6 (**permalink**) 01-22-2010, 02:51 PM

Tell him that she doesn't deserve him. He's worthy of someone much better and he WILL find someone way better. Help him move on and start over. It won't be a while before he does.. and he'll be able to begin a ha piper life.

ஐGabrielleஐ · #7 (**permalink**) 01-24-2010, 02:51 PM

tell him what does not kill him makes him stronger and she has made a mistake and not to waste a tear or settle for second,and to get back out their. .