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Breakup advice. Do women miss you even when they break it? Do women think of getting back. Please read!?
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Old 07-21-2008, 04:08 PM
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My ff broke up with me because she lost feelings. (I 29 she 25) She said it was not fair for me to being so giving and her not return it. She said we had a good relationship but just she wan?t feeling the romantic spark anymore. She does care for me and I feel the same. She just got out of a 2 year relationship which ended in a retraining order cause he was verbally abusive to her. One month after that she met me and things flew. I must admit things went to fast and she felt the same. She used to always tell me she wanted space but was doing it so that things would not get messed up between us. Well now we are done and I have asked her back but she states she needs to miss me and time will tell. She is unable to tell me that she would be back w/ me in a month or so, but wants to continue to be friends and hang out.
I think she was just not ready for me, cause she was so happy to have a guy that gave her so much love, happiness, care and compassion. She was so happy that she told me she wanted to be my wife have kids etc.. I believe she was unable to handle it. She never thought what we had could have existed. He family has told me to give her time, be her friend and don?t smother her and she may come around. I don?t know if it freaked her out or what. What should I do?

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Old 07-23-2008, 04:08 PM
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She's yanking your chain.

Also, I'm sorry but this is very true... normally when a woman breaks up with you she's done. Most times a break-up is much more traumatic for a man than a woman.

We get over it quicker and move on quicker. Guys may have a fling to get back at the woman, but most times it doesn't bother us because we were over it before the break-up even happened.
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Old 07-24-2008, 04:08 PM
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she sounds like a good person. that's definitely the best breakup I've ever heard of. but your family is right. give her time. dint date for a while, and show her that you're there for her when she's figured out what she wants. dint wait too long to date though. it's your decision when.
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Old 07-28-2008, 04:08 PM
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You should be friends... Do what you didn't get Chance to do in the beginning... just think of this as a beginning let her get a chance to feel you out as if you were meeting and being friends for the first time... I'm pretty sure she messes you but you don't want to rush her let her take her time support her as friends and hang out... you never know the feelings Thai ts he have may change into something much stronger... only time and patience will tell
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Old 08-02-2008, 04:08 PM
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I am in the same position as you right now and well for me its almost the same trying to talk to him but he just wont say nothing and well it just gets hard sometimes and you just want to know at that moment and get it over with but depending on what type of person they are and how they used to act around you during that time....like your family said give her time and she will come around sometime and then everything will work out for the best and you wont have to worry and jugs move on.... i did a mistake of bother him everyday and trying to put pressure on him which never worked so just give it time and everything may work out on its own somehow when you least expect it but just keep in touch like calling one every two weeks and dint try to bring up about getting back together.
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Old 08-03-2008, 04:08 PM
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i dumped my bf whom i still love...so this happens, she might b in love with u still but u have to give it time and see how things go.
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Old 08-05-2008, 04:08 PM
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Give her six mouths ,just be her friend be there when she need you, don't push!! Ask her to a movie and to dinner maybe once a week, don't push she will let you know if she wont's to do something!!! Send her some red roses and a nice card and tell her you miss her. Get her something cute for christmas's

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