breakup advice for friend?

mr_o_uk · #1 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 07:54 AM

My friend has just split up with her boyf of 9 months. He ended it right out of the blue, saying that he didnt love her and couldn't imagine being with her the rest of his life. He's probably just running scared. She said that they had an amazing 9 months together. What advice do i give her?

shag007 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 11:14 AM

anything u wanna give

imnobitch · #3 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 01:42 AM

tell your friend to let go and never to run after him...if his guy really loves him, he wouldn't hurt her like that...tell her she deserves someone better, someone who wouldn't walk away from her..."there are so many fishes in the sea"=)

9TMG · #4 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 04:45 PM

tell here that her b.f is not the only man alive here on earth. be strong&move on.

spankybee · #5 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 02:32 AM

tell your friend to move on with her life. tell her that the handsome and responsible men are yet to come her. she should take this experience as a stepping stone and move on with her life.

laislinns · #6 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 01:55 PM

Tell her that if he couldn't handle being together with her for a long period of time, then he just wasn't worth her time. When my friend went through numerous bad relationships and was at the end of his tether, here's what I told him: you go through bad relationships so that you can know when a good one comes along. If you have been hurt so many times, if you keep going through these bad relationships, then when the right person for you comes, you will know it and know how to appreciate it, and you won't be the one to end it because you will know how much it hurt you to be left. You will know when it is right and will be able to enjoy it.

PEGGY S · #7 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 08:36 PM

Tell her that it is better that he ended it now instead of spending years with him, then finding out. Beats the heck out of divorce!! Time will heal her wounds. Just do things with her, and listen. She will be okay soon. She is lucky to have a friend like you.