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What are some ways i can help my friend deal with a breakup?
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Old 12-19-2008, 08:33 AM
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Default What are some ways i can help my friend deal with a breakup?

me and my friend are high school age and he had been going out with a girl for 2 years and it was extremely serious. they were inseparable until all of a sudden she broke his heart. any advice?

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Old 12-19-2008, 02:04 PM
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move on who needs lt anyways
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Old 12-20-2008, 03:30 PM
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laugh to make the pain go awaytake him somewhere fun,funny,and awesome!!!!! and tell him that girl was a hoe anyways! lol idk really w/ guys......
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Old 12-21-2008, 12:19 AM
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The best thing to do is just be there for him and if he needs to talk he'll know he can come to you. That's what being a friend is all about. Just try to do things with him to keep his mind off the pain.
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Old 12-23-2008, 06:50 PM
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I prefer to be alone when I'm hurt very bad. None of that going out and having a"good time"crap. Grief is part of the healing process. She is the only one that can ease that with a little contact with him and he will eventually be better. She needs to keep in touch and make sure he is OK. Its good that you are concerned. Good friend, but I suggest stay away somewhat.
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Old 12-24-2008, 03:57 AM
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tell him to get out sunshine and nature helps the soul recover exercise helps too ,,and just be there to listen ,,,lend an ear ,be the best friend you can be ,,it will take time for him to heal don't rush it we each heal at our own pace ,,,Juliet,
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Sadly, a broken heart is something that noone can help you with, it just takes time to heal. What you can do tho, is just be there for your friend, hes going to need someone to talk to about all this, just assure him he can call you anytime, or come over anytime he needs to talk. Dont try to tell him there are [other fish in the sea] because he doesnt want to hear that right now, he wants her. Fasten your seatbelt, its going to be a long, bumpy ride. But it will work out in the end. He's lucky to have such an amazing and caring friend like you I hope this helps.Good luckBest wishesGod Bless
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Old 12-24-2008, 01:05 PM
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Keep him busy with different activities...get involved in volunteer work or regular work. It'll help get his mind off how he feels. When he talks about it, be a friend and listen. He may not want advice, but just to vent. If you see signs that he is totally withdrawing, he may be getting depressed...not a good thing. At that age, people can get drastic with themselves. If you think he needs to talk to a professional, say so. You are his friend and he needs to rely on his friends to see him through. He's lucky to have you as a friend.
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Old 12-25-2008, 05:00 AM
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NON-SERIOUS ANSWER (better known as a"joke")"Start drinking heavily."John Belushi, as Blutto Blutarski, in"National Lampoon's Animal House"SERIOUS answer: YOU are too young to be SERIOUS, be young,&have some fun!!!!
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Old 12-30-2008, 08:02 PM
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waht do u mean broke his heart?mybe ur friend is wrongmaybe ther is no seriuose problem let us know exect ly what happened.

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