I Need Some Advice About A Gay BreakUp?

Kristie H · #1 (**permalink**) 08-17-2008, 08:31 AM

My Gurl Frm 8 month Just Broke Up Wiff Me Cuz She Saiid She Like Guy....How Am I Supose To Feel Wat Do I Do Helppp

md_mami2005 · #2 (**permalink**) 08-21-2008, 08:31 AM

Date an actual lesbian next time.

anaelisa · #3 (**permalink**) 08-22-2008, 08:31 AM

That's a tough one. I know that's gotta hurt, I have been there. My girlfriend broke up with me and married a guy. There is nothing that you can do to make this situation better. The best thing for you is to let go and move on. She may realize that she misses you and might try to come back, but then the ball is in your court and you can decide if you want to work on things or not. Best of luck to you sweetie!

Michael P · #4 (**permalink**) 08-27-2008, 08:31 AM

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jcgunnern1 · #5 (**permalink**) 08-31-2008, 08:31 AM

It's the same thing as her telling you she has feelings for someone else or another girl. Don't get caught up in the fact that she wants a guy over you, really that's not the issue! So that being said time to move on!

Best Approaches for me include: Doing something fun just for me. Like a mini vacation or a trip to the day spa, or even a new haircut or a shopping spree! Then I like to take up a hobby or retake up an old hobby that I just haven't had time for. One good thing about a break up is you have more time for yourself! Instead of being unhappy about it use it wisely. I will also surround myself with my friends and family members when I am going through a rough patch. I also suggest when you are ready to join a club, group or organization: gym sports activity group, etc! Its a great way to meet new people with similar interests as you. And sometimes this step is super important if you have been in a long term relationship and share the same friends!