What is the best thing to do to enjoy valentines day after a breakup?

Diane · #1 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 03:19 PM

my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a week ago. i didnt do anything wrong and yet he never talked about the reason why he broke up instead, i just noticed that a month ago before the breakup, he started acting so strange and became so paranoid over me without no reason at all. well, now that valentines day is coming, i dont knw how am i going to enjoy it or probably make myself less depressed about being single again. please HELP. thanks.

vierafan · #2 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 04:02 PM

just go out and get layd that would help

splendid izza · #3 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 11:57 AM

don't stay at home...keep yourself busy or hang out with your friends,better yet involve yourself into a new hobbies...the more you had time with yourself alone,the more you'll get depressed..a new flame would be a big help.

2Negative · #4 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 09:28 AM

Go hang out with some friends or coworkers. I know a ton of single people. I might send some of the girls flowers just to be nice.

bambi · #5 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 10:43 AM

It is time for you to spoil yourself a little bit. Go eat someplace that he would never go with you, get a massage or have a spa day. Go see get those movies he would never watch with you, have a nice evening with some friends you didnt see enough when he was around. Buy something for you that he might not have ever gotten you. Be good to yourself, eat some chocolate and celebrate being free of the bum! you said yourself he was being strange and paranoid, who wants that in their life? You can do much better!

shanny4zn · #6 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 02:56 PM

Hi DianaWell to honestly tell you the truth i would be the saddest girl under the sun but hey they say there are many fiish in the sea waiting to be caught? dam girl only he knows he couldnt afford a gift for you that why he bbroke up with you. get together with some friends and have a ball dont let him mess every thing up for you.Guys like him are guilty of doing something wrong. take care and enjoy!!!!!!!!!!

Yvonne Mystic · #7 (**permalink**) 12-27-2008, 03:38 PM

Diane,Each valentines (after I broke up with my EX and before my fiance came into my life) my friends and I ( a whole bunch of us) would go out and celebrate! It's Valentines day... it's the day of love... be it your friends, your family or someone else! So don't fret and feel down... Go out and have a great girls night out! Trust me, it's more fun than you can imagine!! And you can talk to your girl pals beforehand, so that even if they have boyfriens or husbands, they'll take out time for your get together (remind them that everyday is V Day when you have a BF).Enjoy yourself!! Organise a potluck lunch at your place. (Include a dress code theme like all red, or red white, or hats and creative head gear...etc), a lets-all-cook supper and a night at the bar! Go out and have FUN!! If your guy broke up with you with out a reason, it's probably because he's seeing someone else. Just let him go... He didn't deserve you anyway!!Pull up your socks and MAKE AN EFFORT to enjoy your life. I love you gurl... I've been ther... but you gotta be strong and live your life the way God meant for you to.Need to talk? Mail me. Mmmuah! Happy V Day honey...