Need a very serious advice...... (ON BREAKUPS)?

chickeedo · #1 (**permalink**) 10-24-2008, 10:43 AM

People i had a relationship with a woman (married) some reasons we split. But whenever i see her i am getting very frustrated. I often see her in the TAMPLE and PARKS. I am not able to control myself getting humiliated.
pleasesUPS forget her and when i see her i dont get dissapointed. HEEEEELP ME...

foxyladyy456 · #2 (**permalink**) 10-28-2008, 10:43 AM

Get with someone else. Go to a bar, pick up and take her home. You'll find by the morning, you won't even remember the old one.

Or go to a swingers bar.

Surfergirl09 · #3 (**permalink**) 11-02-2008, 09:43 AM

first thing is first. try and talk out things to her or try and talk to a friend. seems to be that you have kept deep breakups and you need them to be lent out

topspin21343 · #4 (**permalink**) 11-05-2008, 09:43 AM

first of all, to forget her you need to have another person in your life, another exciting relationship. and you need to avoid going to places where u think there's a chance that she'll be around.Life goes on dear just ignore her and move on with your life.

Maple Leaf · #5 (**permalink**) 11-08-2008, 09:43 AM

avoid going to places where you may get to see her, also try to keep your mind busy, like reading books and all........move on with Ur life, dint make it stagnant.

Sandra · #6 (**permalink**) 11-10-2008, 09:43 AM

It is quiet common, there is nothing too much to worry about this.

Although you don't have any relationship now the past feelings haunts you, that is why your are disturbed.

What ever may happen - make a strong decision in your mind that you will not think about that girl. After making such a decision her thoughts will be more and more, but gradually it will reduce and one day you will be freed of her thoughts.

ange1tear · #7 (**permalink**) 11-13-2008, 09:43 AM

you are a great personality

*~*Kaleidoscope<3Heart*~* · #8 (**permalink**) 11-14-2008, 09:43 AM

though u want to forget her Ur thoughts were going to her so why don't u talk to her &solve Ur problem this my advice only
if u want to forget her u can do so many things like engage with Ur friends,play with small children's

MELiSSA. · #9 (**permalink**) 11-17-2008, 09:43 AM

you had committed a grave blunder by indulging a married woman in an extra marital affair... however, you were Lucky that she broke the illegitimate relationship on her own... may be because she might have realized the disastrous results that she and her husband and her offspring might face out of this distrustful alliance...

you are spoiling the most beautiful period of your youth by clinging to someone who would never be yours... you are chasing a mirage or trying to reach out for the horizon that are virtual entities... If you are a bachelor then better order for a fresh dish cooked exclusively for you rather than jumping over the leftovers in some body's vacated dining wares...

please take my words in positive way... and forgive me if my language went a bit hurting... my aim is to advise you on your request... it is quite difficult to express effectively in writing as we all have limitations in the power of expression...

Harmonicas!! · #10 (**permalink**) 11-22-2008, 09:43 AM

oh u know u must try to not to look at her at any place and u must think in itself that she is a bad girl and inferior to u so how can i can talk to him this is against my pride when u will developer this u will forget her in a week believe me this is all very bad but have to do this

karan · #11 (**permalink**) 11-26-2008, 09:43 AM

whatever reasons you had relation with her she has outgrown that relation ans she will never come back to you, Because you are expecting that one day she will come back and you are waiting for her that is why you are frustrated and follow her wherever she goes. Firstly divert yourself to something which is of more interest to you or if possible leave the place where you are staying change your job and place. There is a saying out of sight is out of mind, though it will be very difficult divert yourself to more interesting thing and just enjoy thinking of the moments whatever you had spend together. I will not tell you try forgetting because if you forcefully try to forget the frustration will increase , Only time and another woman in your life can bring the change, but whenever you feel lonely always you can remember the moment and enjoy that will bring solace to you.