Can anyone give me some advice to move on after a breakup?

meet new guys

Start flirting and talking to other guys. You may not feel like it because you are still hurting, but a guy flirting with you, will make you feel on top of the world and so special. But Hun, if you want to cry because the relationship is over, then cry. let it out. it's not going to do you any good if you keep it bottled up inside you, ifs just going to make things worse.

Throw away everything you have that reminds you have him: pictures, letters, cards, etc. You will need to do this anyways when you get married. Sometimes those things will really make it hard for you to move on if you keep looking or reading them. Also, try to occupy your time with family and/or friends that are easy to hang out with and don't got to places that remind you of him. You will also need to realize that there are more fish in the sea and that you are a beautiful young lady and you'll probably have a few more boyfriends before you settle down. Good luck babe!

The best thing to do
1. stay away from him
2. don't except calls from him .This helps you heal .. The call might give you hope that you might get back together....
3.Start focusing on your life.. like the things you like to do , your friends, family... Some girls tend to rap their lives and their worth around a guy...Don't do this and don't let this guy play you... I hope this helps....

Spend some time by yourself and reflect. Listen to some music. While meeting new guys works, you could unknowingly use someone else as a substitute (potentially hurting that person).

I wish there was some formula I could give you that would make this easier for you or take the hurt away, but I believe truth is always best and the truth is there is no "quick fix" when a relationship ends like this when you wanted it to continue. It is so painful, I know. Don't let anyone tell you that you that it isn't that big a deal or that you should just forget about it..... I have found that the only thing that will make it easier for you is the passage of time. You cannot turn off the feelings you have for this person just because it is over... and you will need to get past it in your own time. The one thing I can offer to you that may help you, is to focus on coming relationships you will have. As I have told someone else recently.... when you meet someone who wants a relationship with you as much as you want it with him..... it will be so very awesome..... even more than this relationship that you are grieving for.... and you deserve to have someone who feels about you as strongly as you do them..... and as hard as it is to believe now... you will meet that person..... watch and see...... try to focus on that...