Need your help on breakup !! Advice please?

SeemaSachin · #1 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 04:08 AM

I was going around with a girl for around 1 year. Lately since our relationship wasn't going anywhere so I asked the girl to talk to her parents about us and her parents said NO. After this the girl started avoiding me even more , I gave her options if she want me to convince her parents, or if she wants time to convince them or if she wants me to be out of her life I can do that. May be she is seeing someone else..but i am not sure. 2 weeks back, she told me that she will think over about this relation and from now until then none of us communicated. Today i got her email that she did not had guts to call me so she decided to email me and wrote whatever we have/had between us its over , she loved me, she still loves me and she will love me with all her heart and she tried to convince her parents but they said no.Guys what do you suggest , should I reply her or not ?

Josh · #2 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 04:56 AM

Just leave it at that. Technically, parents shouldn't always have the say, but if she says it's over, whether because of her parents or not, it's over. I would suggest you listen, it sounds like you'll both be happier in the end. Good luck.

track pride · #3 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 02:19 PM

C'est amusante'.Anyway, I think you should. If she really still likes you it would hurt her if you ignore her. There probably won't be anything in it for you, but be a nice guy and comfort her.

tomboytina2002 · #4 (**permalink**) 01-05-2009, 05:56 PM

Dont reply. Its her loss. If she is the type of girl who listens to her parents, not her heart, then let her go.

lil j · #5 (**permalink**) 01-08-2009, 03:32 PM

ya man if u luv her u shluld but if u dont then njust forget about it.

Leonie A · #6 (**permalink**) 02-09-2009, 07:06 PM

It is not so clear what is the real problem why her parents don't approve of you. Are you marreid to soemone else? If so, better file for a divorce first before getting into another relationship - that is to be fair to the girl. If not, yet the girl chooses her parents than you, then move on.