How did you overcome the depression you felt after a breakup?

white tiger · #1 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 05:50 AM

I need some quick tips and answers, especially from people who have gone through it. I am going through a breakup and I feel totally devastated. Please help!

staples_92 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 03:39 AM

hang out wit other guys to forget aout the one you just broke up with

Cherry · #3 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 02:52 PM

well,,that's life,,,you must really face it..you can keep yourself busy....go out with your friends....think of some bad memories that happened to you and your ex..time heals all wound..or you can have a break...go out of town and bring back your life into normal...i mean ,.living without him in your life..you can do it.

Michael M · #4 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 03:22 AM

time....time.....time.I know the feeling that"this pain will never go away".But it does.

phonecia1970 · #5 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 07:10 AM

Get involved with something new. It doesn't matter too much what it is. This type of depression happens when people lose something. Like when a friend moves away. Or the play they were involved in ends. Anything that ends.The only thing NOT to do is to get into a new relationship right away. If you go out with someone new, its called getting them on the rebound. Would you like someone who goes out with you just to fill the hole in their life?

Old Man · #6 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 02:21 PM

It takes awhile. Keep busy. It's just like a death of a loved one. Each day the pain gets less.