How long, after a BAD breakup, before you felt attracted to anyone else?

broken hearted · #1 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 07:22 AM

I just past four months of daily crying over a breakup i NEVER saw coming. I am so heart broken over this. I feel like I will never want to be with anyone else ever again. When guys look at me I think"don't look at me"... Am I ever going to want to be in another relationship. I wouldn't even get back together with my ex at this point. Just knowing he could hurt me so much once, I would never set myself up for a second time with him.

John Q · #2 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 01:54 PM

Fifteen years or so.

Sarah · #3 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 03:38 PM

Didn't feel ready until I had REAL closure with my ex.

katee · #4 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 05:08 PM

everyone is different just try to be strong hun

Chelsie, ♥ · #5 (**permalink**) 01-05-2009, 06:42 PM

i went out with a guy for a good month and he started cheating on me with a girl i knew from my junior high, and i was devistaed when we broke up. i still had"feelings"for him for about five months after the break-up. eventhough i had feelings for him i could never see myself ever being with him again. but eventually the tides turned and i seen a guy that i immediatly took a liking to and totally forgot about my ex

Magz · #6 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 03:19 AM

i think u need to work things out with ur ex and if u at least make amends so ur not so angry then u will b able to move on alot faster, but u need time to recuperate so dont try to push urself 2 much

Christy · #7 (**permalink**) 02-10-2009, 10:45 PM

you have the freedom to do wat u want!

Nick · #8 (**permalink**) 02-20-2009, 09:24 AM

you just have to say to yourself i dont fucking care anymore and youll be able to move on