The Reason Your Woman Left You

Hi,

In my previous post, I talked about why you should NEVER beg your woman to take you back... because begging sends out all the wrong signals to her and it only reinforces to her that she made the "right" decision to break it off with you.

BUT you and I both know that it's the wrong one. It's just SHE who doesn't know it yet. And it's your job to make sure she knows so and begs you to take her back.

Before you can do that however, we need to go back in time for a bit... to search for the reason why your woman left you in the first place.

You'd be surprised to know that most of the time, the reason your woman left you can be boiled down to 1 of 5 reasons.

Now you may be thinking... "what do you know Jenna? My situation is unique. My woman left me for a reason special to us both. No one else has experienced what I have."

Well, you're right... to a certain extent. It's true the reason your woman left you is unique to your relationship... But this reason is only on a superficial level. If you dig deeper (like I did), you'll discover there are ultimately only 5 reasons why a woman leaves a man.

Regardless of how unique your situation may be, the core reason is ALWAYS 1 of the 5.

Here are 3 of the 5 core reasons I learned from talking with countless women about why they left their men...

1. Emotional Abuse

According to Willard F. Harley, Jr. Ph.D., "When legal grounds for divorce have been stated, about half of women report they have been emotionally abused." But guys, this is NOT because you’re literally abusing them with a barrage of emotion-striking insults.

A woman leaves a man for emotional abuse typically described as indifference, a lack of communication, or other forms of emotional neglect.

Emotional abuse equals emotional indifference.

This reason is a dangerous one because this sort of neglect doesn’t register on a man's radar as a reason to split up.

Men tend to believe their partner is simply too demanding and too hard to please. This typically isn’t the case.

Your woman ISN'T "too hard" to please, you just aren't focusing on the RIGHT WAY to please her.

Your woman needs to feel emotionally connected to you. Aim to please your woman emotionally, and you're one step closer to keeping her around.

2. Uncalled for Jealousy and Overprotection

There's a fine line between being protective and being jealous. It's when you're overprotective that your woman will run for the hills.

There's one right way to handle jealousy when a guy checks out your woman or when your girl flirts with another man. This simple one-liner leaves your woman wanting YOU more! It's revealed on page 63 of Bait Her Back

3. Lack of Love

There's a great book called Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggeriches. In it, he describes the “Crazy Cycle”. The premise of this is that the woman withholds respect when the man fails to show his love and that the man withholds love when the woman fails to show respect. Crazy, uh?!

Once this vicious cycle gets going, it's hard to break. You need see this pattern to take control.

Give her the love she wants even when you're NOT getting the respect you need. She'll likely change her reaction, the cycle will be broken, and she’ll start to respect you.

The tricky part is re-establishing her attraction for you, but I've never seen a guy not make his woman love him again when he follows a proven formula.

Don't take this as an excuse to shortchange your partner on respect. A woman leaves when she isn’t appreciated and respected as well.

There's no need for a woman to stay with you if she isn't loved or respected.

There are too many choices available to your woman these days.

These are just a summary of 3 of the 5 core reasons why a woman leaves her woman. Have you identified yours? Or perhaps it could be one of the 2 other reasons you'll find on pages 10 to 12 in "Bait Her Back".

A break up usually happens for 2 or more of the 5 reasons women leave men. So for example, if she left you because she felt "emotionally abused", she may have also abandoned you because of jealousy. You noticed she was becoming distant to you so you became scared and pushy.

Until you understand the reasons she left you, you CANNOT get her back and fall in love again.

If you try to get back together without following a proven system to win her back forever and fix the deep reasons she left you, you won't keep her forever.

Unfortunately, asking her why she left you never works because women are afraid to tell the truth why they leave. She'll say something like "It's just not working" or "It's not you, it's me".

If you'd like to find the remaining 2 reasons women leave men and how you can effortlessly get your woman back for good... with her doing all the begging for you to take her back, I encourage you to read "Bait Her Back"

Always Success In Love,
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