How can i get over a breakup or death?

suju's lovely girl · #1 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 03:41 PM

I need some advice, how can i deal with a breakup or death faster, or get over it faster. I'm reading romeo and juliet and their solution isnt very good. I'm supposed to be writing a"Chicken Soup"book on advice on breakups and death comparing it to Romeo and Juliet and i have no idea about how to get over breakups and deaths. No experience. i just need advice on how to get over it.

Matt · #2 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 01:38 PM

Just tell yourself that person went on vacation and eventually you forget about them.

banjaxed · #3 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 07:22 PM

One WordTIME

Mandy · #4 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 07:32 PM

5 Steps of grieving:1. Denial2. Anger3. Bargaining4. Depression5. Acceptance

Dahel V · #5 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 05:16 PM

hmm get profesional help.... idk i think it's just by time for example when my grandma died i didn't even cared but my mom cried alot.....

GEORGiNA · #6 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 09:48 PM

HONESTLY THERE iS NO WAY TO GET OVER THE BAD THiNGS THAT HAPPEND iN LiFE iTS JUST HOW LiFE iS AND HOW YOUR BRAiN WORKS iT WiLL TAKE TiME BUT BY KEEPiNG YOURSELF VERY BUSY YOU CAN TRY TO FROGET THOUGH YOU WONT GET OVER iT BUT YOU WONT THiNK ABOUT iT AS MUCH AND WiTH TiME... =DGOOD LUCK

Tokyo Karla Bamm Bamm. · #7 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 11:48 PM

every one says time will heal it.and in some ways it is very true.maybe you can also write what romeo and juliet SHOULD HAVE done.

zed · #8 (**permalink**) 01-17-2009, 06:32 PM

I have experienced both and the answer is... over time.You can't really"deal"with a breakup or death. You just have to accept it and"wait it out". Some breakups can be severe and the healing process can take years but time does heal all wounds - just how much time depends.

MadSkillZ · #9 (**permalink**) 01-31-2009, 01:00 PM

Yes.... time and force of will to forget, about the deceased its all about time and always remember the good time.

Michael P · #10 (**permalink**) 01-31-2009, 05:08 PM

acceptance is the key to getting over anything. accept that all life forms die and it is only a matter of time and that u will die when and where u are supposed to and the is no reason to fear death. also remember that u will eventually see the deceased in the next life. that should cover the emotions brought up by death.understand that there will always be another and that it is all part of a master plan. that should cover breakups.its a bit religous but faith is usually what gets one through these times.

Bella · #11 (**permalink**) 02-10-2009, 06:08 AM

True happiness comes from inside out.To overcome a death or a breakup you need to put your mind, thoughts and emotions aligned; Prayer is the key. Pray to God to clarify your mind and to give you strength to handle this kind of situation. Humanly speaking it is hard, as we tent to loose the sense of life in situations like this. Only the creator of life can give you strength to tolerate death/breakups,etc,The other thing is what you can do for yourself: do things that make you happy. Doing things that make you happy not only help your body heal, but also distracts you from the object of your stress.