Breakup get-over help???!!!?

guitar_girl4ever · #1 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 05:31 AM

so my boyfriend,eljay, is a sweet guy but he acts to hard to make me laugh. he broke up with me because of his not being funny problem.someone help me with the breakup tears. someone make me feel

piratepantherprincess · #2 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 08:36 AM

wait i am confused... he trys to hard to make you laugh so he broke up with you? i dont understand ...what is the problem.... you just cant get over your ex boyfriend... time will heal.. and try not to think about it... keep yourself busy.... start talking to another guy..

gypsyveg · #3 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 12:50 AM

Grief at the end of any relationship is normal. Have a good cry. Journal write, vent on paper. Every day it will get a little easier.

Trinitee · #4 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 03:42 AM

It's not your fault that he's not funny. I know you're hurting, but time is the only thing that will make you feel better.

Chasey Lane · #5 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 06:24 AM

he broke up with you because he wasn't funny enough? what?? maybe it made him feel inferior.i just broke up with my first boyfriend. we were together 10 months. it was really hard. i mean REALLY hard. as in it actually felt just as bad or worse than when my dad died!!ok i find talking about it alot helps in the beginning, even though you'll feel bad no matter what. but it helps. stay around people, stay around your friends, do things that occupy your mind. then after you get over the initial edge, you can focus on doing new and good things and"looking on the bright side"e.g. now you can look for someone who makes you laugh...just make sure you feel good about yourself and do whatever you can to make sure of that.

Baby m · #6 (**permalink**) 02-04-2009, 07:32 AM

just calm down first. dont cry. hes an idiot for dumping you right? i think he is a jerk and you dont deserve him. get someone who isnt a"drama king". Youll find mr.perfect and its not him. so forget him. he aint the one. you need someone who will understand you girl! Hes a loser who just doenst het himself. so forget the relationship. find the next NICE GUY and ask him out. if you need asking out tips, email me i guess...good luck!!