my fiance of 2 years recently left me. i had become emotionally absent near the end. This absence was a direct result of her not having started a career. she has been out of university for 3 years. our relationship was under alot of strain. i was paying 90% of the bills, there were wedding costs discussed, and the inability to save up enough money to consider buying a home. i had tried to being supportive of her pursuit of a career but near the end i became beligerent. i felt that she did not want to help out in the relationship. i felt alone and anxious much of the time. i SERIOUSLY love her. her lack of a career was the ONLY thing that was killing me. it manifested itself into me being a jerk near the end.CAN I DO SOMETHING TO FIX ALL OF THIS?