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Relationship advice...breakup of 6 year relationship?
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Old 12-28-2008, 11:16 AM
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Default Relationship advice...breakup of 6 year relationship?

my fiance of 2 years recently left me. i had become emotionally absent near the end. This absence was a direct result of her not having started a career. she has been out of university for 3 years. our relationship was under alot of strain. i was paying 90% of the bills, there were wedding costs discussed, and the inability to save up enough money to consider buying a home. i had tried to being supportive of her pursuit of a career but near the end i became beligerent. i felt that she did not want to help out in the relationship. i felt alone and anxious much of the time. i SERIOUSLY love her. her lack of a career was the ONLY thing that was killing me. it manifested itself into me being a jerk near the end.CAN I DO SOMETHING TO FIX ALL OF THIS?

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Old 01-07-2009, 01:59 AM
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Yeah. Call her up, have dinner, and talk it out! Communication is the key to ANY relationship! Why don't you just let her know that you need her to be on board with helping out on the bills. etc.?
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Old 01-19-2009, 04:20 AM
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Tell her how you feel,, and she what she's willing to do to make things better...
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Talk to her about the situation. If she's not willing to get a job to help support you guys, then you can't do anything.
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Old 02-16-2009, 03:24 AM
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Honey, you can do better.And from what you say, she was using you.If your being honest, its not your falut.

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