Going through a breakup need advice?

roccitytaxes · #1 (**permalink**) 12-29-2008, 09:03 AM

just broke up with my loser bf of 5 years. what can i do to keep myself busy so that i will not call him. i know he is no good for me but it is just that comfort of knowing someone for so long that makes it hard to let go.

ldvwright · #2 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 04:48 PM

try doing a hobby that requires most of your day time [other than school] and in night hours try going out with friends or calling someone [other than him] It will keep your mind off him ALL DAY

variety5160 · #3 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 01:12 PM

Hang out with a friend or friends who will not allow you to cave and who will remind you of why you broke up with him.

the gr8t one · #4 (**permalink**) 01-27-2009, 01:00 PM

It'll be better in the long run!! The right man is out there,and you'll know its him because he will treat you like no other!! He'll love you 4 you!! In the mean time theres the Lifetime Network!!

Life's Good!! · #5 (**permalink**) 01-30-2009, 08:52 AM

Stop thinkin abt him and u will enjoy just smell the freedom hun!! now its time to PARTY!! u can a lots of stuff somethin that u weren't able to do bcoz of lack of time and things that really interests u.Best of luck.

lily80231 · #6 (**permalink**) 02-12-2009, 09:40 AM

This is defiantly one of the hardest things that you will have to deal with, Just did it myself. Where I messed up was every time I drank I called him. Bad move. So 1st, if you drink, erase his #...trust me. U can write it down at home so u have it but DO NOT have it in your phone. Another thing I started doing was going out with the girls, working more, working out so that I could look hot for the other guys...blah blah blah... and if he is a loser like you say, just raise your standards. Realize that you are better than that, and you can do better than that. Live for you, be happy. It is possible. I am now proof of that.