A few days ago my girlfriend of 4&1/2 years and I split up. She told me that the love she had for me had slowly disappeared over the last couple months, but she still loves me as a friend. She wants to be friends and not lose anything, except for the romance. Both of us are going off to college, but don't let that automatically be the reason. We had an unbelievably perfect relationship through high school...the best of friends, trusting each other with everything. The last 1/2 year has been rough, as we've both been stressed out by college preparation, etc. We constantly talked about how much we were meant for each other and nothing would ever get between us. But now we're split and I'm not sure how to deal with it. She's also been stressed by volleyball, trying to be perfect and all, so that's taken a lot of her focus. I just need some advice in general from experienced people. Can I hope to one day get back with her? How do I move on? Do I stay friends? Any help would be great!
Hard-to-get-over breakup...desperately need experienced advice?
