Need Breakup advice? : (?

Joe · #1 (**permalink**) 01-05-2009, 06:46 AM

My girlfriend broke up with me the other night because she thought we took things to fast. I asked her about 3 times during the relationship if she thought we were going to fast. She said no and asked me what i thought. She had just got out of a bad 2 year relationship before ours with an abusive and scumbag boyfriend.We both loved each other to death and i would give the world for her. We were only dating for about 2 weeks but i loved every minute being with her. She told me that we will get back together soon and that she just needs time to think. I trust her and believe her about this but i dont know, i cant get her off my mind. And the thought of her leaving for another guy just rips me in half. I'm sick to my stomach thinking about this situation and cried myself to sleep the night we broke up. I dont wanna bug her because she said she needs time but i dont know what to do. Help!?!?! please

Justin K · #2 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 01:55 AM

thats not love thats lust stop crying and get a hold of ur self and b a man

Jack K · #3 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 04:53 AM

Ya gotta give her the space she needs ... but let her know you're there for her if she needs anything at all ... if it was meant to be ... it will happen

kj1162 · #4 (**permalink**) 01-18-2009, 10:50 PM

2 weeks is a short time to fall in love with someone. and with her getting out of a 2 year relationship and jumping into one with you it makes it look like you're her rebound. if she does want to be with you and you want to be with her, give her time to think. i don't doubt that she is having a rough time, you need to respect her and her feelings. give her space but give her little reminders that you're still there and you care about her. don't suffocate her. everything will all work out

suprchgdr2 · #5 (**permalink**) 02-04-2009, 04:32 PM

Easy there Killer! Sounds like you were moving wayyy to fast. The first smart thing you did is to hold back from talking to her. Give her space like she asked. However, you don't have to sit around waiting for her either. Go out, meet some other girls, people etc. Watch how other people's relationships work or don't work. I think you were so into this that you were smothering her. It usually takes as long as the relationship lasted to begin with to get over it. Biggest thing is to RELAX! Even if this is the end of this relationship, there are many more coming up for you in the future. Good Luck!