SOME ADVICE! Breakup! Please read. Is this normal behavior. Just wait?

Me and this girl were dating for 2 months. All of a sudden she says that she feels its not going anywhere. BUT she calls me and texts me like we are still dating. Do you think she just needs time. Today she texts me twice and calls me and I didn’t respond until an hour later and she thinks I am ignoring her. Is this a game???? I really like her and i felt we really never got to know eachother well enough. Would she still miss me if i just back off and would that be my only chance. We clicked very very well. Had sex 2 times and enjoyed each other company. Anyone have any life experiences to share etc.. I am 30 she 26.Why would she think I am ignoring her if she broke it off? Any advice or anything .. PLEASE. Could she just be thinking of still being with me? What does a girl think in this situation.Last night she invited me out to dinner then back to her house. I told her I thought she was confused and unsure of what she wanted. She really didn’t say much to that. We were happy together last night. After I left and got she told me to come back and stay with her. I said no, but I guess she missed the no part because then she thought I left and was coming. I don’t get her. She keeps saying we are friends but I don’t understand. Could it be she is just starting to have a lot of feelings and she is now terrified of being hurt or is she just being nice? What do you girls and guys think??? Next day I told her I was moving on and she was scared? Later that night we hung out and she had unprotected sex with me and she is starting to get close with me again! Is she testing me or what?? Advice??

I've been in your exact same situation (or at least it sounds like it). Not only is it frustrating... but ouch. It hurts to be someone's rubber-band. But honestly, I don't have any answers to give you unfortunately - just guesses from my own experiences.I think there's a good possibility that she just doesn't want to be alone. And you just happen to be available to her right now. At the same time, truthfully, it doesn't sound like she is that into you relationship-wise. So she's conflicted inside... in short: you are being used by her.In any case, you are obviously confused enough already. My advice would be to take control of the situation. Figure out what you are comfortable with (for example, just being friends), and tell her that's how it is and that's how the relationship will be from now on. Take control, stop the confusion. Then let her decide if she wants to stay or go. End of confusion.If there was one thing I wish I had known to do when I was in that situation, it's that. Take control and protect yourself. Less hurt all around that way. And also, there's a good chance you can salvage at least a friendship that way. And who knows, things may change in the future - don't burn that bridge.Good luck man.