What makes the difference between a smooth or nasty breakup?

dark cloud · #1 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 08:36 PM

You know how couples may break up and be disgusted by each other for the rest of their livesor break up and still be good friends?i want to know the process of breaking up that makes it one or the other

Sandy · #2 (**permalink**) 01-22-2009, 10:08 PM

Impossible to predict. Some relationships just end badly.Honesty is always best. Mutual respect and open discussion.A little time and separation - sometimes then you can be friends.A good attitude and some maturity on both sides.Good luck.

love stinks · #3 (**permalink**) 02-11-2009, 04:00 PM

i guess a smooth break up would be like, both of you agree that you want to break up and still be friends or like the other person says i still love you but things aren't working out, i'm sorry but can we be friends? and you know something like thatthen a nasty break up, which i just went throughits when, one person decides to just break up, for the stupidest reasons, and they tell you they love you but they dont want to be with you anymore and there are just so many ways to tell if a break up is bad or goodi guess the reason they start hating each other is they broke each others hearts