What's the fastest way to help you move on from a break-up?

anonedaw · #1 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 04:56 AM

This isn't just any bad break-up. This is a very bad break-up w/ the love of your life, wherein there was begging involved and threats to take someone's life, desperate measures were done due to this break-up. So the question isn't only how to move on but how to gain back your dignity as well

sammy · #2 (**permalink**) 01-16-2009, 12:50 AM

There is no'fast'way of moving on. You just gotta keep yourself occupied as much as possible. Join a sports team, pick up a hobby, get a job, charity work, anything!

hollis_101 · #3 (**permalink**) 01-16-2009, 02:30 AM

i know how you feel.it's going to take a while.try to forget about everything.and try to find someone else.it's going to be very hard at the start.but it will get easier.hang in there.

Tarzanluvr8 · #4 (**permalink**) 02-01-2009, 04:24 AM

Within the first week, just let everything out. Cry, scream, write your feelings in a journal, anything that makes you feel better. Just let out all the negative things you had in your relationship that would make you want to kill yourself or whatever"desperate measures"you're talking about.After that, get rid of anything and everything that reminds you of him. This will help A LOT during a bad break-up.Next, spend time with the people that actually love you and care for you. Before you know it, you'll have moved on and taken him out of your life.