My boyfriend and I have decided to break up. I struggle with depression and have not been working which makes him feel responsible for me. While he is happy to do it he and I agree it is enabling. When we broke up before I slept with someone who I don't love to try to get over him. It hurt him so much even though we were not together. We want to take time apart so he can get over being hurt and so I can learn to be the healthiest, independant, centered me possible. He says that I am the love of his life and I feel that way about him. Neither of us had been in love before (I am 28, he is 32). However he says he can't see me while we are apart because it hurts him too much. I am clear that I will be focusing on getting my degree, and certainly not sleeping with anyone (it never makes me feel better and only hurts everyone involved). How do I cope with not seeing him? Is it foolish to hang on to the hope of being with him again? I really appreciate any insight, suggestions, or feedback!
Do you have any advice for a breakup that is not final for sure?
