I need advice on a breakup.?

annonymousperson12 · #1 (**permalink**) 01-12-2009, 02:01 PM

My boyfriend of almost the past 2 years sent me a text message tonight saying he was backing off before things get worse between us.We've honestly been through so much together and I've done so much for him, I dont understand what's going through his head, and he wont give me an explanation. I love him and he knows that.Does anybody have any good things I could send to him that may make him rethink things or make him feel bad and realize what he's done? Hes a hard person to make realize your point of view.

sarah jane l · #2 (**permalink**) 01-25-2009, 12:36 PM

girl.. I believe that realization takes time. he'll soon realize things when its not his anymore. because the more you stop the person from doing such, he'll be more eager to do it. just let him decide on his own and continue to be a nice girlfriend/ ex no matter what happened. this pace of your life is really difficult but just continue to be strong as my friend once told me: I should not be depressed and feel weak because I was once the strongest sperm of my dad!hhhehe... funny but surely you can reflect on it! good luck!

Olivia O · #3 (**permalink**) 02-03-2009, 08:41 PM

You shouldn't have to make him feel bad to want to get back with you. Just show him you love him but make sure he knows that you won't just wait around for him and that he might be making a big mistake if he really does love you