What are some good tips for getting over a tough breakup?

Ive been dating a girl for 3years now and we're breaking up. She wanted to get married and I wasnt ready. Im very sad because I felt like my time with her shouldnt be over yet... she wants to move on since Im not read.Can you give me any advice for getting over this breakup? I still love her alot and think about her all the time.I cant sleep at night and Ive already lost about 15lbs. What should I do to help myself get over this and move on with my life?Im 24 and shes 26. I think since shes older she feels more pressure to get married.I just feel like Im not ready for the responsibility of getting married and starting a family. I just started my career, bought a house and I feel like Ive got my hands full right now with all that. Getting married and starting a family just seems like added pressure that Im not sure Im ready for. I think that maybe in 1 or 2 years I might be ready but she doesnt want to wait. She says I should know by now.I dont think there's any chance of us getting back together... Im pretty sure she is seeing someone new already.. I dont think I have commitment phobias... Maybe something between us just wasnt right. It really confuses me, how she was able to move on so quickly after I was supposed to be the love of her life.I just want to move on also.. but I cant seem to. I cant sleep and Im not eating. I try to hangout with friends but Im still not better.

If you feel that strongly about her, then perhaps you should consider marriage. Why not now? You will eventually. I don't get what makes you think you're not ready? Is it age? Or that you're not sure about her? Or are you just one of those guys afraid of the word marriage?If that's not an option, then to get over her, date someone else. Yes, it is using the next girlfriend but that's the best way to get over it.