I need some advice on how to deal with a breakup!?

I have been in an almost 9 year relationship with my child's father, and now after all these years, he says he's not in love with me anymore, and hates coming home! I'm pretty devastated right now, and really need to know how to deal with this!!!! I've talked to the pastor at my church, and that helped a little bit, but there's just this sense of hopelessness, depression, and despair. How do I pick up and move on?

the only cure is time. As time passes the pain will go away and you will recover. Just keep your head up.