breakup or work it out!? need advice?

Ash · #1 (**permalink**) 02-15-2009, 10:01 PM

ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a lil over 2 years we have lived together and now we are not living together we started to argue and figured that we both needed a lil bit of space... he is 30yrs old and im only 22! i love him very much and cant stand the thought of not being with himhowever lately things have gotten real bad he seems to want to spend every moment at the bar with his buddies or out and about! i am a drinker but enjoy time at home relaxing we have been through a lot together surgies and i had a miscarriage about 4 months ago! i do everything for this man than..loan him money his laundry clean his house in which him and a roommate live in i always spend time at his house he never comes to mine or spends time with my friends its always about what he wants im sick of it so tonite i broke up with him and just told him everything he does that bugs me crazy when he around his friends he is a whole different person we love each other do we try and work it out?

charaze · #2 (**permalink**) 09-18-2010, 12:08 AM

He's 30-years-old and often men who live together with someone really younger than them often have complications in understand what each needs. Face it, he has more experience in life and everything than you. Don't continue to torture yourself just because you love this man so much. You mustn't forget that you have a life, too, and you're obligated to live the way you want to. You don't deserve to become his nanny or housemaid. What he should do is take care of you and pamper you because you've been through a miscarriage and your condition is critical. Please don't cover up for him. He hasn't treated you well and hasn't returned the favor for you. He's been a total stranger to you and you don't have to live with someone you don't know now. All the best.

Abhikittu · #3 (**permalink**) 02-22-2011, 09:55 PM

I m 21 yrs old. My gf wana brkup with me. Bcz in anger i had slapped her so she is thinking i m nt gud 1 for her. That was done only by misunderstanding bcoz of sumting is cuming infront of me abt her cusion nd her. N i cnt live withot her. What shud i du. She nt ever pick my phn.