Is it definetly over?

i am new here but I would really be less stressed if someone can help me solve this. Is bugging me so much. Last 6 months I started a relationship with a guy and it seems like a movie. We really loved each other. I could see in his eyes how much he loves me sometimes. He was so nice and so unhappy whenever I felt bad about something between us and always said sorry. I was on a 3 days vacation and when i came back he said he is having really big problems with his friends and his flat and he needs some time alone. I asked if this is break up? He said he doesnt know. I asked again if he loves me?He said he doesnt know. And i gave him some time. But, two days after I called him and asked him why he is pushing me away of it and If he really doesnt want me anymore, I would be sad , but It would be better If i know it, right on. All he said was sorry, I need time I kind of know the answer that we are through, but why would he delay it not saying it right on? And, can I really hope our silly plans to become truth after he solves his problems? All i know is that if i have problem I wouldnt push someone away, I would want their support in my life. Also, i told him that my friend once said we wouldnt succeed , he said maybe she is right. When I told him I think there is something more than his flat problems, he said he must go So, I repeat, If we are done, Why I dont get that answer right on?Why should I be tortured? Is he making space so I get the answer " I do not love you anymore" after two weeks?

Maybe he also thought this was like in the movies. Are you both movie buffs? Why am I asking this? Because three days is just too short for him to instantly realize he's not in-love with you anymore. I thought he was madly in-love with you because he treats you well.