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I'm dating a maried man. I have tried so hard to get out of it. I can't. I'm pregnant with his baby. Help!
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Old 07-31-2010, 07:14 PM
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I'm dating a maried man. I have tried so hard to get out of it. I can't. I'm pregnant with his baby. Help!

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Old 08-03-2010, 07:14 PM
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quite a pickle!!

do what your heart is telling you
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Old 08-05-2010, 07:14 PM
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your dun
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Old 08-06-2010, 07:14 PM
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well, what to do about the baby is get an abortion.about the guy, tell him that you don't want to see him anymore.hope i helped
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Old 08-07-2010, 07:14 PM
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leave him
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oh no
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Old 08-16-2010, 07:14 PM
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help? what do u want me to do? f*** man, that's your mess-up, take responsibility
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Old 08-20-2010, 07:14 PM
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sound like your Iain something really deep if you didn't want to end up in this situation then why get yourself into it??
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Old 08-25-2010, 07:14 PM
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I thought we agreed you wouldn't tell everyone! I swear I'm going to divorce my wife and we'll be together!
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Old 08-27-2010, 07:14 PM
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do you love him? if you do then keep on seeing him but make sure that he tells his wife or something. if you keep doing this without her knowing, it might lead to trouble
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Old 08-31-2010, 07:14 PM
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Karma's a b*Ch
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Old 09-05-2010, 07:14 PM
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you sure got yourself a problem, dint you?
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Old 09-09-2010, 07:14 PM
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out of what .. that relationship, why is he holding you down and raping you.. how did you end u[p pr ego anyway.. dint you know she will catch y'all and beat your ass! you got your self into it.. and now you have to get yourself out
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Old 09-12-2010, 07:14 PM
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You are literally SCREWED!!!
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Old 09-16-2010, 07:14 PM
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well sounds like he has a problem.
request child support he will likely request DNA test for parentage.
see a lawyer even through local social services if you have to,but make the decision for yourself and child.
he played now time to pay
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Old 09-18-2010, 07:14 PM
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Tell him that if he loves you and that baby (if he knows about the baby) that he should leave his wife or its over with him.If he doesn't leave his wife than i hope you find someone who loves you and would give up his wife who he is cheating on for you. But i hope he doesn't have a wife too.
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Old 09-21-2010, 07:14 PM
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This is your fault, you must realize. You could cause him to leave his wife and end someones marriage. You could cause a lot of problems. The situation your in is very tight, and the only thing to do now is tell him you are pregnant with his baby and say he has a choice. He can stay with his wife, and you will not be seeing him unless he wants to visit his child. You must cut you self off from him because you brought yourself in. Or he can leave her and be with you and raise the child. But don't be so eager for him to leave his marriage.

Other problems that can come up is if he has children, which is not good. If his wife finds out she can file for divorce and end up taking away his children. But whatever you do, you must realize it is your responsibility as an adult to raise a child and do the right thing.

And how could you not have gotten out of it? He is married for goodness sake. All you had to do was say, "No, you are married. Don't call me anymore." Is it that hard? And even if it was, use a condom next time if you don't want a baby.
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Old 09-23-2010, 07:14 PM
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Quite a problem...Stop the affair, because i dint see why you'd be in it in the first place, unless he TOLD you he was married when you found out you were pregnant, and tell him that you dint wanna see Hume anymore, and if you didn't KO about him being married, Then i suggest telling his wife, she will take it alto harder if she finds out the hard way
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Old 09-28-2010, 07:14 PM
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you are in a tough situation..i will tell you, you are bring in a new life into this world, so take care of this situation as soon as possible. Its not the baby's fault whatever mistakes you two have made. So pressure him to come clean to the wife..even if he doesn't stay with you, so he can at least take care of his future child without hiding it from the wife. Be an adult about this, don't let your emotions take the best of you, think with your head in this situation..not with Ur heart, your heart can play tricks on you..and there's a new life coming, you want the best for you and your kid, give him some time to make a decision..but he has to make a decision. do not bring your child to life without that woman know in what you two had..trust me, baby will pay for that the rest of his life.
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Old 10-02-2010, 07:14 PM
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Good luck with that.

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