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Old 07-22-2010, 10:43 PM
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I asked a great girl out about two weeks ago and we have yet to get together outside of school yet. I always suggest things for us to do, but she is CONSTANTLY busy. I don't know what to say to get us to be closer. Could someone tell me what to do? Or at least suggest something?

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Old 07-25-2010, 10:43 PM
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she don't like u, if she liked u a lot she would find time
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Old 07-29-2010, 10:43 PM
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ask her out to the movies
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Old 08-03-2010, 10:43 PM
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Find out what she likes to do and ask her to do that with you.
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Old 08-04-2010, 10:43 PM
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She's just not that into you. Find a new girl, she's lame
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Old 08-08-2010, 10:43 PM
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forget about it. She is always busy because she doesn't want anything to do with you. Find another girl. There is plenty of them around.
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Old 08-09-2010, 10:43 PM
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Sounds like she doesn't want to go out but doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying so; so she says she's busy. Try one more time.....ask HER to pick the time, place, etc. and if she has an excuse....move on! Good Luck
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Old 08-12-2010, 10:43 PM
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Sounds like she is really busy to avoid being with you, trust me I've done it, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings, ask her and see what she says, chances are if she really likes you that will cause her to make time
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Old 08-15-2010, 10:43 PM
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once or twice maybe she likes you more than that forget it and dint talk to her focus on something else. if then she asks what happened tell her she was always busy so you went else where. no point in asking constantly you are only feeding her ego and giving up yours to do it. find a nice girl that isn't as busy and actually go out and have fun
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Old 08-18-2010, 10:43 PM
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ask her for her number and hang out with her after school. if u are to busy then u shouldn't worry about it then.
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Old 08-20-2010, 10:43 PM
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suggest going on a date 10 pin bowl in or cinema.if she keeps making excuses then she not into you
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Old 08-22-2010, 10:43 PM
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Sorry to say this, but it doesn't seem like she's interested. If she liked you she would have found some time instead of always being "busy". The most you can do is ask her one more time, and tell her that this would be the last time you're asking...because it's not fair to you to keep waiting for her.
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Old 08-24-2010, 10:43 PM
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you probably need to be straight with her, tell her if shes too busy if she is ask for an explanation after all you deserve it right? and if she cant be with you move on dint date someone your not gonna go out wit that's what Lil sisters are for
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Old 08-29-2010, 10:43 PM
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u should tell her that Ur going to go wherever she's going to be busy
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Old 09-02-2010, 10:43 PM
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depends. did she show interest to you when you asked her out? perhaps she's busy because she doesn't want to be around you or could be that she's extremely busy to go out on dates. my suggestion - give her some respect... give her some space. perhaps she's trying to be hard-to-get so you can write letters expressing your interest to her. Come to think of it... school is almost over and everyone sure likes to do the best they could before the school ends. Wait till summer and ask her out again.
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Old 09-07-2010, 10:43 PM
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she very well might like you but she is nervous or shy to go out with you,she might not like you but you could always send her an email telling her how you feel or text her mobile and send her flirty messages and see how she replies to your cell phone
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Old 09-08-2010, 10:43 PM
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She might not like you the way you like so, if that's the case she might not know how to tell you straight out. You might want to ask her in person if she likes you and if she is truly busy if that's the case let her know how you feel and tell her that you both can work with finding time to spend together with her busy schedule together. If she says no she does not like you or she keeps giving you the run around, move on...She might come to or you will find another someone wanting and ready to spent time with you.

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