please help, i am 43 yrs old female with alot to offer and can't find a date. what is wrong with the world???

Before you blame the world, it might help to do some self-examination. I don't mean this in an unkind way. Maybe you need to go out more; to places where you will meet men, but first and foremost to places where you will have a good time regardless; singles clubs maybe. Also... Network! tell as many people as you can that you are receptive to meeting men and dating. Have you tried on line sites where you can meet people and at least get to know them as friends first?

There is nothing wrong w/ you nor the world. Just don't make this your main priority it will happen when you least expect it, focus on yourself and it will happen..... Lots of luck and love!!! PHB

Nothing, try this site:

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ma by u need to go out more often to meet some one !!

I think that you have a lot to offer may be one of your problems. Regardless of what they say, many men are the ones who like to offer things, they may not like to receive it. It makes one feel that one must appreciate.

When you say you have "A lot to offer" does that mean you are grotesquely fat? Or are you rich?

We know nothing about you other than you are 43 and you don't like to capitalize to appropriate letters so in all fairness we can't really give you a real answer.

Here is some good advice: You must be happy with yourself before someone else can by happy with you.

Harmony is a scam...that was bad advice. I tried that for a couple of months just to see what it was about, because I had talked to two people who met their mate from the site. What I found was that since I was on a month to month membership, MYSTERIOUSLY, during the period AFTER I'd paid, the so-called matches would taper off a few days after they'd charged my card. Then the end of the month, nothing. Then, right after I paid again, suddenly fifteen guys had supposedly signed up THAT DAY and were my matches. Yeeeeeaaah, right. I figured that out real quick. I would try True.com or Match.com.
Sorry, Yahoo!, but Yahoo! personals does not have quality people signing up every day.