I got a ethics and moral question for the divorced and dating?

vis · #1 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 05:15 AM

if you been divorce for a while ..lets say a year or more would you date your ex's best friend.. would you be upset if your ex dated your best Friend.. this is a hypo question.. a movie a was watching got me to wonder about this.. my ex was like that he never believe in dating his best friends or freinds ex's..so i was wondering how many others believe like this?

Dark Dreamer · #2 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 04:28 PM

I seriously doubt I would date an ex's best friend

Tiphanie · #3 (**permalink**) 03-01-2009, 06:40 AM

I think that the best friends are off limit! It seems just a little disrespecting if you ask me!

missy p · #4 (**permalink**) 03-03-2009, 06:52 AM

thats just messed up

angela t · #5 (**permalink**) 03-24-2009, 07:48 PM

I'm divorced and no it wouldn't bother me at all. My x and I are still friends and if he wanted to date my best friend, fine with me as long as all are happy.

darkening_hope · #6 (**permalink**) 03-31-2009, 04:30 PM

you're no longer with the ex, why would you want to get involved with their best friend? That's disrespectful, and it could cause a rift in their friendship. I would be upset and weirded out if one of my best friends ended up with my ex-husband. (not that I have an exhusband) but it's alot different than ex-boyfriend, especially depending on the seriousness and length of the relationship. It's definitely something that should be thought out.