Dating advice need??

follow your heart

Don't drop your principals. Stay true to yourself and on what you want in a relationship.

If you do like him you must accept him the way he is.

hey you are being honest, you don't like it leave it still early in the relationship, and find someone else who is more you type and does not scare you,

Susan you have Evey right not to want to see him again. I really would do the same thing

When I'm going for girls, i dint do tats, and i dint do certain piercings they just dint do anything for me aye.

I think you should stick to your principles and stop dating him. If you think its possible to look pass his tattoo you wouldn't be here asking the question now would you? Its just been three weeks so i guess its OK for you to stop. If you change Ur principles for a guy that you met for only three weeks just reflects that you're easily saved and he may take advantage of that.

If you are questioning if you should keep talking to him over a tattoo, then I would say that there are deeper issues here. It may be your minds way of sending up red flags that this guy isn't what you need. I am sure that it is not just the tattoo that is bugging you, you just may not realize it. Gargoyles are ugly, but they have a purpose to ward off evil. do a go ogle on the meaning and see if you still feel put off by it. But like I said, I say it's your body's way of telling you that he is not what you need. Good Luck

everybody has some wants. i used to wanted HIV ta too also. and Hun if u like him don't care that ta too. if it is what he wants. maybe it made u a little afraid and u saw him somehow bad. calm down. try to know him more then decide, but don't leave him just co us of it. look at his heart not on this what he has done on his body. but u know also tell him that u relay don't like that ta too. i would do that to my man.

if you really like him, i don't think you would give him up because of a tattoo?

You Polly dint deserve this guy, you re too superficial. It amazes me how some people (you) act. Youre digging this guy.... he gets a tattoo and you dint like him anymore? Hes being himself expressing his creativeness through body art. So except it, love it. So many people hide and conform to society. How bout you meet someone and get to know them for THEM and not judge them from a little ink on their arm. He could be the greatest guy you ever meet.

Don't see him again if you don't want to. I hate tattoos, too.

Its your choice actually. Its just a ta too. If your going to stop seeing him because of a ta too, that's not very nice. You judging him based on his looks ( i.e Tao ). No one should be judge on looks or anything but on their hearts. He is a nice guy, you want to blew it away for a ta too, not nice at all. Maybe the both of you wont end up in a relationship, maybe you guys will end up being good friends. So dint stop seeing him, just hang around longer to get to know him better. There is no harm in doing so.